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Well put. It reminds me of Plato's words, "Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools speak because they have to say something."

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When we speak from substance rather than ego, our words carry weight.

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That saying resonates with me too - especially at work, where the people who like to be heard are usually those that know the least.

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Absolutely right. Sometimes it pays to be silent - choose your battles, conserve mental energy and when it’s time to have an opinion, make sure you’re well informed.

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Yes! Save your voice for what truly matters.

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As I am heading for 80 years old next year, being focused on Stoic Wisdom is importantly and most important for me to stay alive well. Office of Health andWellBeing focused is my ideal place to be, work and play now. Just give me strength and focusing to live my good life.

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Yes. I agree. We all need to focus on what is important and matters. Eventually talking.

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Shifting my mindset from having opinions and beliefs, to having questions and curiosities has been one of the most important aspects to maintaining a healthy mind and heart.

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Yes! Questions open doors, opinions build walls. I've found the same freedom. When I'm curious instead of certain, I learn more and judge less.

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Excellently said.

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Love this perspective. I think we need to choose wisely about where we put our attention and not feel pressured to speak our minds about everything — especially if we don’t have enough information. Assumptions are dangerous and stop us from actually being open to learn. Love this!

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Thank you! Yes, silence can be wisdom. Before speaking, I try to ask myself: "Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?" This simple filter has saved me from countless regrets.

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This is the topic on which only few people talk about. Btw it was great 🔥

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Glad it resonated with you. Sometimes the most important truths are the least discussed.

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I say sometimes you can just observe, rather than form an opinion.

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LOVE IT! Thanks.

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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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In a world that demands constant commentary, silence has become a forgotten art. We are conditioned to believe that every ripple in the current of discourse requires our voice, that every unfolding event must pass through the sieve of our judgment. Yet, true wisdom is not measured by the frequency of our words, but by the depth of our understanding—and sometimes, understanding requires nothing more than stillness.

Not every question seeks an answer, not every argument warrants a response. The universe has existed long before our thoughts formed, and it will continue long after they fade. What then is the weight of an opinion, if it does not add to clarity, if it does not illuminate? The oak does not concern itself with the wind's every whisper, nor does the river pause to justify its course. So too, the mind is not meant to be a battlefield of endless disputes, but a sanctuary where only the most worthy of thoughts take root.

To refrain from forming an opinion on everything is not ignorance, but discipline. It is an act of defiance against the illusion that noise equates to wisdom. For in the quiet, in the deliberate act of withholding judgment, we do not diminish ourselves—we expand. We make room for truth to emerge, untainted by our biases, untouched by the need for validation.

Let the world speak, let events unfold, let the winds carry the voices of a thousand perspectives. We do not always need to add to the chorus. Sometimes, the most profound thing we can do is listen, and in that listening, understand.

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You Don't Need *To Have An* Opinion on Everything.

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Yes….AND, I have an opinion on harming other human beings. IMHO, it’s not ok and happening a lot right now. So it is my opinion that standing up against this is the right thing to do right now.

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😅

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